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Although I knew Jim for only three short years, he made a profound impact upon
my life. Our paths happened to cross while searching the internet for other Jeep
enthusiasts when I happened upon the website for Just Jeeps Of Omaha; a Jeep
club that was Jim’s labor of love that he personally created and was extremely
proud of. The next thing I new I was looking for some guy named Jim Davis in a
truck stop parking lot at the crack of dawn and heading to Kansas for a weekend
of wheeling. Within minutes of meeting Jim for the first time I knew there was
something special about him. His boundless enthusiasm for Jeeping in particular
and life in general was infectious and it was immediately evident that he loved
interaction with people; treasured family and friends, and everyone with whom he
came in contact seemed to know this about him instantly and instinctively.
Jim
always thought of others before himself. Whether it was by sacrificing his
desire to tackle more difficult 4x4 trails in order to guide new wheelers over
the easy trails which he had traveled a hundred times before; being the last to
leave an event at the end of an exhausting day so that no one would be left
behind or so that he could assist a fellow off-roader, whether he knew them or
not; suffering chronic physical discomfort silently in order to put others at
ease and not to dampen their fun; or, ultimately, by bravely enduring his final
illness thinking always of the feelings of others before himself.
Every time I saw Jim he had a
smile on his face and a huge mug of coffee in his hand. Jim also had a fabulous
sense of humor and a gift for gab and was not shy about sharing either; one only
had to place a CB microphone in his hand to verify this fact. He saw humor where
others failed to see anything noteworthy; he was a keen observer of human
nature; and, foremost, he was an optimist…for Jim the glass was always half full
not half empty.
Of all the time I shared with Jim, I
particularly treasure the memory of a trip that he and I took to Moab, Utah a
little over a year ago. Although we had known each other for a relatively short
time, over the course of this week we had discussions of a depth and breadth
that some may go a lifetime without the benefit of sharing. It was then that I
learned of the intensity and depth of his love for Michelle, Rachael and Jade
and how fortunate he felt for having them in his life. It was on this trip that
I first learned the full scope of his illness and how it had, and continued, to
impact his life; and the extent of his passion for baking and his dreams for his
future life’s work.
Jim was a man of simple pleasures.
Place him behind the wheel of his Jeep, with his family around him; a mug of
coffee in his hand and Johnny Cash on the stereo and living couldn’t get any
better for him. His eagerness to experience all that life had to offer, while,
at the same time being gracious and ever mindful of the needs and desires of
those around him, marked him in my mind as the most compassionate, caring,
thoughtful and unselfish person I have known.
At this time of grief I temper my
sorrow and profound sense of loss with the incredible good fortune I feel for
having had Jim be a part of my life. I know I speak for everyone here when I say
“I will miss him dearly”.
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